CONFESSION: After a rather lengthy and non-sexual courtship, Robert and Lara finally agreed that the time was right to become more intimate with each other. Robert rapidly learned to enjoy the way Lara made love to him, and he too, proved to be a quick study in the oral sex department. He learned what buttons to push to bring her pleasure with his mouth, as he eagerly explored between her legs, his tongue probing her soft, inviting womanhood. The more they began to trust each other and shared their needs, the closer they became and the more satisfying their sex life was.
Then Lara discovered that she had and intense desire to have her anus licked, a thought that left Robert less than enthused. It wasn’t that Lara wasn’t scrupulously clean and certainly she had no odor problems, but the whole idea of putting his tongue there went way beyond his newfound oral abilities.
CONSEQUENCE: It was not a wise idea to refuse a sexual request of a partnerwithout having tried it. Ultimately, it would either make Lara think something was wrong with him or with herself.
STRATEGY: To educate Robert as to the benefits of analingus, or “rimming” as it was sometimes called, and to get him to try it. He might like it.
SOLUTION: Robert made sure Lara had cleaned herself and washed after going to the bathroom. Then, while he was eating her (performing cunnilingus), he also rimmed her asshole, and even stuck the tip of his tongue inside it. Lara’s anus was one of her more sensitive erogenous zones and through the introductionof analingus he discovered this. Eventually, the anal attention led to anal intercourse as one of their favorite sexual outlets.
BENEFITS: The relationship between Robert and Lara would be less strained, and the two of them could add to their sexual vocabulary.
Confessions to a Sexologist: Peeking into the Sexual Secrets of America by Dr. Ava Cadell, Ph.D., Ed.D. Visit Dr. Ava’s bookstore at Loveology University — http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/BookStore.aspx?a_aid=sward
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